Does being married to you feel like a blessing or a curse?

24th of June 2013

Husbands and wives, please learn how to cultivate a loving sensitivity that will encourage and allow your spouse to be open and honest with you without feeling they always need to walk on eggshells whenever you’re around. Can your spouse tell you how they honestly feel or share with you whatever is really bothering them? Do you make them feel as if their life’s mission has to be making you feel fixed and happy all the time? Do you manipulate them and circumstances by throwing a tantrum until you get your own way? If you do maybe its best to have a change of heart because this is not what marriage is all about! By demanding everything, you may end up destroying the good things you do have within your marriage and ending up with nothing! Who in their right mind wants to be around a selfish, self centred person? Think about it and decide whether you need to make the relevant adjustments to your personality and way of doing things. Remember your marriage is a gift and supposed to be a blessing! Please don’t make being married to you feel as if it is a curse!

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Giddy joy or absolute horror?

18th of June 2013

Do not place an unnecessary expectation and burden on your spouse to meet your needs! Remember your loved one is imperfect, human and incapable of  successfully playing the role of God in your life! That was never meant to be their job and puts a pressure on them no person should have to live with. Instead be grateful for the ways they do enrich your life, and afford them the luxury of being the blessing to you that they are cabable of being! You may not think they are doing enough, but try walking in their shoes for a day and see if that doesn’t change your mind and perspective! Imagine what it is like living with you! Be honest, does that bring thoughts of giddy joy or absolute horror? Now consider, this is your loved one’s every day reality!

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A marriage made in heaven or hell?

14th of June 2013

Whether you are the husband or the wife, make up your mind that as far as it is up to you, you will work your socks off to make your marriage work. Go to counselling, seek wholesome advise, whatever you have to do. The point is its not up to someone else, it is your responsibility to do everything you can to make it a marriage as great as heaven intended! If you don’t have a determined mindset you could find that you have a marriage that feels like a living hell!

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Need help to write your life story?

7th of June 2013

Have you ever thought of writing your own life story? Has anyone ever said to you,”You should write a book?” Have you been put off by not having a clue where to start? I can help you as I also write autobiographies/biographies. I’ll take the challenge out of your writing project and turn your story from a dull read to something people cannot put down! Check out the link below for more information.