I love you!

These days people get offended for all sorts of things, some serious, some quite petty. However it is rare that people are offended because someone told them that they are loved! I don’t think anyone can say they hear those words too often or too much. Therefore I encourage you to tell your spouse you love them as often as possible. Don’t be shy with this, but let this become your habit. It will certainly help to plant love and greatness into your marriage. Remember you get out what you put in!! I dare you, say those three little words. Don’t just presume your spouse knows because you told them so on your wedding day!

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Its a miracle!

The coming together of a man and a woman who love each other and have therefore decided to commit themselves to one another is truly a miracle! This is worth celebrating when such a challenge is successful! So if you are happily married, (not because its perfect but because you married the right person), then enjoy being with them over this very special christmas season. Merry christmas!!!

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Take the time to tell them!

Surely it is not necessary for me to mention that our world is in serious trouble. Therefore decide today that you will make a conscious effort to stop taking your spouse for granted. Take the time to let them know in your own special way, that you love and appreciate them. Do this sooner rather than later as none of us have any idea what tomorrow will bring!

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Putting your marriage into perspective!

Your marriage is a blessing and a gift that many do not yet have and can only hope for! Granted it may not always feel very glorious at times, however that is no excuse to take it for granted! Do you know that the wife or husband that gets on your nerves……would actually be a tremendous blessing to someone else? Their lack, would actually be a reason for them to be so happy and appreciative of what you perhaps look down your nose at! Hopefully this reality check helps you to put things into perspective! It is important to see that things could always be so much worse! So, take a deep breath, look at the bigger picture, and thank God for what you do have!

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What every spouse wants to hear!

It doesn’t matter whether you have been married for five minutes or fifty years…it is important to start the way you’re going to go on. Make a conscious decision and effort to never take your spouse for granted. Instead presuming that they will always be around, its wise to remember that no-one knows tomorrow. Therefore take the time to tell your spouse that you love them. It is sheer music to hear those special words….’I love you’!

Do you want to stay married or not?

As a husband or wife, would you say that you are a reliable source of support for your spouse? Can they count on you to be there for them in anyway they need you to be? Do you provide a safe place for them to be themselves without fear of judgement? Or do you think your main job is to nag and criticize them until you successfully put them in their place? These questions can be answered as you look back to your wedding day and consider honestly the vows you made to your spouse. This is not rocket science. Doing certain things will successfully tear away at the fabric of your marriage causing it to disintegrate. The question ofcourse is…. do you want to stay married or not?

What does marriage mean to you?

I have a question for you married and single folk alike. Do you consider marriage to be something you enter into with the intention of getting blessed or to be a blessing? Do you expect someone else to ‘make you happy?’  Do you on the other hand believe its right for you, to be prepared to contribute significantly to making someone else happy? However you answer these questions, will determine the attitude you adopt when you enter into the sanctity of your marriage and therefore whether or not its a successful venture or not! Afterall no-one likes having to deal with a ‘me first,’ high maintenance kind of person! So shall we all do some serious soul searching to ensure that the selfish, self centered somebody in question is not us!!

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