Putting your marriage into perspective!

Your marriage is a blessing and a gift that many do not yet have and can only hope for! Granted it may not always feel very glorious at times, however that is no excuse to take it for granted! Do you know that the wife or husband that gets on your nerves……would actually be a tremendous blessing to someone else? Their lack, would actually be a reason for them to be so happy and appreciative of what you perhaps look down your nose at! Hopefully this reality check helps you to put things into perspective! It is important to see that things could always be so much worse! So, take a deep breath, look at the bigger picture, and thank God for what you do have!

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What does marriage mean to you?

I have a question for you married and single folk alike. Do you consider marriage to be something you enter into with the intention of getting blessed or to be a blessing? Do you expect someone else to ‘make you happy?’  Do you on the other hand believe its right for you, to be prepared to contribute significantly to making someone else happy? However you answer these questions, will determine the attitude you adopt when you enter into the sanctity of your marriage and therefore whether or not its a successful venture or not! Afterall no-one likes having to deal with a ‘me first,’ high maintenance kind of person! So shall we all do some serious soul searching to ensure that the selfish, self centered somebody in question is not us!!

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Does being married to you feel like a blessing or a curse?

24th of June 2013

Husbands and wives, please learn how to cultivate a loving sensitivity that will encourage and allow your spouse to be open and honest with you without feeling they always need to walk on eggshells whenever you’re around. Can your spouse tell you how they honestly feel or share with you whatever is really bothering them? Do you make them feel as if their life’s mission has to be making you feel fixed and happy all the time? Do you manipulate them and circumstances by throwing a tantrum until you get your own way? If you do maybe its best to have a change of heart because this is not what marriage is all about! By demanding everything, you may end up destroying the good things you do have within your marriage and ending up with nothing! Who in their right mind wants to be around a selfish, self centred person? Think about it and decide whether you need to make the relevant adjustments to your personality and way of doing things. Remember your marriage is a gift and supposed to be a blessing! Please don’t make being married to you feel as if it is a curse!

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