Do you want to stay married or not?

As a husband or wife, would you say that you are a reliable source of support for your spouse? Can they count on you to be there for them in anyway they need you to be? Do you provide a safe place for them to be themselves without fear of judgement? Or do you think your main job is to nag and criticize them until you successfully put them in their place? These questions can be answered as you look back to your wedding day and consider honestly the vows you made to your spouse. This is not rocket science. Doing certain things will successfully tear away at the fabric of your marriage causing it to disintegrate. The question ofcourse is…. do you want to stay married or not?