What if anything have you got planned for your loved one this christmas and new year? Maybe this is the time to really appreciate them for being there all year round. How blessed are you to have someone to love and to cherish, considering there are so many lonely people out there? Why not count your blessings and think of your spouse as top of the list?
Why not spend time writing yourself a band new list of all the things you love and adore about your spouse. Surely this is more constructive and sure beats making a mental list of all the things that you hate and are irritated by! Its true that where ever your thoughts go, you as a person will follow. So its a bit of a no brainer, If you don’t want to be tormented with the mystery of why you married your spouse in the first place, spend time developing the first list as opposed to the second!